21.9.14

Relationship: I Can’t Keep A Man, What Do I Do?

Lately, I have been getting more anxious and worried as it is obvious that I am not getting any younger; with the worst part being my inability to keep a relationship with a man for a long time.


I turned 27 yesterday and my anxiety level has reached fever pitch. With my longest relationship ever not exceeding 5 months, it is a mystery how things never go my way in terms of keeping a man. It’s either the man leaves or another girl snatches him from me. It’s like a vicious circle, nothing ever changes since I started dating at 22. I don’t have a boyfriend as I write this and I already have a feeling that my next might not stay too. Could it be as a result of my refusal to allow any man have sex with me due to the fact that I was raped at age 16? My decision to stay without sex could be a factor, but could it be that bad?
How can I convince him to stay with me? How can I keep a man? Most of my friends are now married and I am even more worried.


culled from Ladun L

1 comment:

  1. You don't have any problem! Your refusal of not having sex is the problem, do not think about it at all, those men that left are not meant for you! Don't worry d right one will come your way sooner or later!

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