My Husband Is Milking Me.....Should I Continue Playing The Fool?

 I got this from a friends blog so i decided to share with you guys.

Dear Stella/Blog Visitors,

I am a 41 year old woman. I got married 4years ago but started staying with my hubby two years ago cos he was leaving abroad. 

I am still waiting on the Lord for d fruit of the womb. For over 2years I have been with my hubby am the breadwinner and it's not been easy. My hubby has refused to work and even does not want to do anything for a living. 

The two cars we have are all mine,I fuel d cars, buy diesel for d generator, food stuff for d home to the extent I buy recharge card s for his phones. Have tried so many times to hook him up with all my contacts so as to assist him in getting contract since am privilege to work with one of the international oil company. 

He want to stay abroad and to be precise USA, but my thought is this, if he can't hustle here in Nigeria, how is he going to manage in the states, we usually travel to the states and Europe on vacations and we all know how  things are abroad. Now he wants to go stay abroad and expects me to resign and join him later. 

My husband prefer to stay on the line chatting with various women, he can afford to stay in doors all through the year chatting so far there is light and Interne.

He is so lazy to work.‎I forgot to mention that he has a 6 years old son with his ex girlfriend. 

So my question is should I leave him to travel and start life all over again or should I just go for an adoption since age is not on my side and I can comfortably take care of a child with my income instead of spending all my resources on this lazy man. Please I need your mature and always on point advise...Thank you all in advance.